It's not your job to forward them articles and reels about how to be a better partner.
That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they seek this info on their own, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to make sure they don't throw temper tantrums. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they choose to regulate their emotions, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to Google their confusing behavior so that you can understand them. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they work to understand themselves, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to make sure they don't cheat. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how loyal they choose to be, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to teach them about the bare minimum of being a healthy functioning partner. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they choose to learn this, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to find a way to make them listen to what you're saying. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they choose to listen, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to pry their thoughts and feelings out of them. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they choose to share their inner world with you, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to remind them to follow-through on their commitments and responsibilities. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they choose to be a responsible adult, and decide if that works for you.
It's not your job to pull their weight in this relationship. That's their job. Your job is to see if and how they choose to pull their weight, and decide if that works for you.
~Ashleysouthard
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