We talk about all the different kinds of orgasms women, and men, can experience.
Many people I, and I'm sure many other practitioners, work with, come to learn how to have these different experiences.
In all of these orgasms there is something that we don't always mention, and it's an important experience, for men and women.
It's also confusing because orgasm is supposed to be about pleasure.
I'm going to digress for a moment, when we start exploring our sexual energy we learn how different these two things are. Especially when we've made orgasm the goal, the criteri0n by which we judge our sexual experience. That's not to say that orgasms are not pleasurable, there's just a whole lot more. When our attention is on pleasure and energy, we begin to see, feel, experience, the difference.
Back to the orgasm we don't talk about a lot, The Teargasm.
I've been doing and teaching sexual energy bodywork for many years.
The first time I experienced this with a woman I was working with, I was amazed at the power of it.
We had done a massage that went into a Yoni Massage. The massage was deeply relaxing, bringing her into her body, and allowing energy to start building and moving. The Yoni Massage added the sexual energy element. Every touch was about building energy in her body. The orgasm was intense.
And a few moments afterwards the tears came. And came. And came.
Sobbing, body shaking.
A release that went on and on.
When her body settled we spoke about what she'd experienced.
Some of what she let go of she was aware of, and a lot of it she wasn't.
It was just releasing, from a place inside that doesn't have words. Emotions, hurt, pain, we've held onto for so long, maybe more than this lifetime.
Our sexuality, our sexual energy is a path to so many things.
There is such power in this, in our bodies, in our genitals, in our hearts.
When we become aware of this, when we start understanding that our sexuality, and our pleasure, is a portal, a doorway, a key.
In the conscious expression of this, in the learning, in the practice, we start to see the possibilities.
And we start to experience them.
And this is where it is, in the experience.
In taking time to learn how patterned and conditioned we are.
In taking time to come to awareness of how we can have different experiences.
In being constant on the path, constant with ourselves.
In the willingness to be open, to be vulnerable, and then to be more open, more open and more open.
To be in our hearts.
For our sexuality to be in our hearts.
Over time I've seen men and women have these experiences, Teargasms.
On workshops, at home, in sessions.
And what comes after, the peace, the intimacy with ourselves, the stillness, the openness, the being, is just a space of beauty.
Sometimes the tears are tears of love, of celebration, of feeling something that afterwards people talk about being spiritual.
Sometimes the tears cleanse us.
Sometimes the tears free us.
Sometimes they're tears of gratitude.
Teargasms.
There is so much, limitless, for us to learn, to explore, to experience, in our sexuality, our erotic hearts, our vitality.
And in our beautiful tears.
~ Jonti Searll
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