l'd define good sex as sex where you have great
communication with your partner. You're both
comfortable expressing your wants and desires without fear of being judged, sex is a dialogue expressed with our bodies.
Looking at each other, their body language, what
they seem into, hearing their moans and breaths. It's all non-verbal communication but very important.
Sometimes you don't even know what you like,
because you're so in the moment. Having an
ATTENTIVE partner, that picks up on your ups and downs, is what brings the connection levels up. If they moan more in one thing, keep doing that thing, the exact same way you were doing it. Don't go faster or change it up. Do that thing, THEN maybe experiment from that, if no positive change, go back to that thing.
A good sex When you look at each other and the tension in the air becomes so powerful that if you were to touch there would be actual electrical discharge. A moment that seems forever passes before you both get naked in the fraction of a second and try to make a human version of the gordic knot. When the world just disappears, it's just you two and passion that can't be explained. You have no idea of what either of you is doing but 15 min later you are both drenched in sweat and in serious need of some water. Every word you utter is a giggle and you can't stop smiling, the moment the empty glass of water touches the table you are both back into knot formation, giving and receiving until both of you are just a sore, giggling, sweaty, content, happy, and utterly satisfied tangle of two bodies who just wont let go of each other...
A good sex is best defined by what you do when you aren't having sex. For example, if your at work constantly remembering how you lover made you feel the night before and there is a pre-sexual arousal and you lover isn't there, you had some good sex. If you can't wait to get home and get more, you had good sex. If either of you shed a tear of joy after multiple sequential orgasms, you just had good sex. And if there isn't a dry spot to sleep in afterwards, you just had good sex.
A good sex is sex you have without being in your head the whole time. Without anxiety. Without nervous, or worrisome thoughts about not pleasing them. Good sex is when you are both completely and utterly lost in each other.
A good sex, its some kind of trance, I mean really a different state of consciousness where the sensation pulsates all around your body and even in your brain. A true feeling of ecstasy, both energizing and numbing.
During which you feel totally isolated from the external world and feel like you become one with Your partner while he/she embraces you, kisses and caresses you..
A good sex is where you are so far removed from yourself and it is just touch and feeling and pleasure. I think that only happens when you are deeply in love and deeply comfortable with someone. It is that point you get to where you are totally uninhibited with someone because so deeply trust them with your desire.
To explore more, contact me, let’s talk.
Joe Turan
- Life Coach
- Tantra & Kuscheltherapeut
00436643884305
www.joeturan.com
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To explore more, contact me, let’s talk.
Joe Turan
- Life Coach
- Tantra & Kuscheltherapeut
00436643884305
www.joeturan.com
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